When I used to hawk on the street, there was this guy who liked me so much.
He loved to do stuff for me even without asking.
He was that kinda man an average girl would call a "mugu" for always being there without saying his mind.
He wasn't talking $ex with me, which got me more worried because some men won't be that nice to us without being useful in their beds.
I even turned down some offers because they were too much from "just a friend".
I no fit chop money for Lambo when you no dey enter my eye like that.
One day, I had an open conversation with him in his car.
Do you like me? I asked....
He froze for a moment because he didn't see that coming.
That reaction alone suggested that this guy was "m@dly in love" with me.
Stuttering, he replied; I like you but like my sister...
Sister???? I responded while staring at him with weird smiles...
He was almost sweating 😅
I said; Ok oooo, I just asked because the gifts from you doesn't look like what a big brother would just be giving his kid sis at the snap of a finger ooo.... Even this phone???
Him: If God blesses you with me as a wife, I'll be so happy ooo but nne you know na???
Me: 🙄 you want God to bless you with your sister as a wife? But this is almost coming late ooo because immediately you said you liked me as a sister, I just told a guy that I've accepted his relationship proposal.
I showed him the chat (the truth was that, the said guy I allegedly gave response to, was my younger brother😅😅😅)
He just gave a smile in disappointment and left. He stopped taking my calls for long and everything died a natural death.
I never wished to date a man who could not look me in the face and ask me out.
You know why I gave this story????
Dear sisters, it is w!ckedness to watch a man spend a fortune on you when you know that you can never have something to do with the said guy.
Stop those insensitive statements, saying you just took him like a big brother.
Shey you no recognize all the children wey your mama born?
Stop taking advantage of people's good heart simply because they are not outspoken.
When the opposite gender (who is not your homie) begins to make certain sacrifices that crosses the line of "just friends" , begin to ask questions.
A man would never feel used for having $ex with you but would feel used for letting him spend so much on you.
When a man goes this miles, and doesn't ask for your body, he wants you...
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